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Gay porn— It's not just for gays! who knew?



Q: I've been wondering why guys pull out and come on abs, face, ass etc. instead of doing what would seem to me to be real and natural? And hot. Maybe its because I'm a girl? Help me understand.

Lynda

Steve: OK, where to begin? ...first of all coming inside of someone is potentially unsafe. Maybe in the straight world they test for HIV and STDs and then take their chances... but in the gay world the standard practice since the early 90s had been, up until recently, safe sex. The top studios all still follow this practice for the most part. But now after 20 plus years of living with HIV, 'bareback porn' has become quite the fetish; especially the practice of shooting a load inside a partner. This is not so much a fetish as a health risk. Perhaps that's what really gets the guys off who like bareback porn... maybe it's the defiance. The power of watching and doing what had previously been taboo or not permitted regardless of consequences. I have to say its just not entertainment for me. For more about hotter safer sex you can visit How I Roll.info.

Anyway moving on... one thing is for certain men want to see that cum shot- even in bareback porn. It would be anti-climactic to know the top stud shot his load inside, even in a condom, and not see it up close. Gay porn has always been that way as long as I can remember. Porn is not about doing what is natural, its a performance for the audience. It's a show. If you can't see the money shot you're left with a feeling you've been cheated! You guys can comment here more about this if you have advice for Lynda, feel free.



Q: I'm a bi girl, but I haven't been with a guy for many years, just with girls. I have to tell you that after I have seen one of your videos..just because I was curious about gay porn...so you are my ultimate crush! I have never liked hairy guys and stuff, but after seeing you performing in a video...I was like WOW!!! Then I've checked out your blog and you seem like a really nice guy. My question is: if you weren't gay, who would like to have sex with? I've attached a pic of me to see who I am. If you will ever come to Europe and you'd like to have some fun with a girl, just let me know! :))

Andrea in Hungary


Steve: (I chose to keep this girl's anonymity and not post her picture) OK Andrea, you're hot! I am so flattered and shocked, actually, that I have a female fan base. Since you ask, I am pretty much 100% into guys... but once in a while the thought has entered my mind as to what fucking a girl might be like. Truth is I never have had the inclination. If I did, I know I would have to have a man in the room though because I really, really, really have a thing for cock. So maybe if you had a hot, uncut, hungarian boyfriend you could both take advantage of me. ;-)

It's silly to speculate but if I was into girls, I'd probably be into dark haired pretty girls, not unlike Andrea who is smokin' hot in her photo. I also love Penelope Cruz. But I can't stop thinking of that hot boyfriend too. The one I just made up! See how I am?



OK now for something completely different... I had to bring the blog back to its faggot roots, and these two similar questions really wet my whistle. Hold on to your shower shot boys!!!

Q: As a person interested in experimenting in ass play, how do you know when you are clean back there. It seems like I always have to use the mens room. Its like you have to use a garden hose just to stay clean and fresh. I didn't want this to come across gross, I just think its something interesting to learn, and if anyone would share this with me, I'm hoping its you. Thanks man, you give me a rock hard one!

Charlie

Q: Since you recently shared your ball shaving story... nothing would make me happier (and hornier) than for you to share your tips on a clean spotless asshole... you must have some great tips... Maybe some organic home method, a McGyver solution when one is in a...errrr... jam. Please share!

Loving you,
Johnny Wacker

Steve: When I read these questions I just about fell out... this is a 'truth' but it almost feels like a 'dare' to answer it! I hope I don't regret this one later because the reality of a clean ass is much better enjoyed after the task in complete rather than during the cleaning process itself... all the same I hope this helps... but if this ruins your image of me you should probably just stop reading... LOL!

1. You Are What You Eat.
...or don't eat. A day before I have a scene I try to eat simple foods. Chicken and Rice for example. Rice is binding... enough said. Cheesy Deep Dish Lasagna or Curry Chicken, not so much...

2. Supplemental Stop Gaps.
Stop everything in its tracks. The day of a big scene I have taken an Immodium tablet. But they tend to de-hydrate me pretty bad then I can't make pretty spit magic during my cock-sucking scenes. So I have switched to the pink stuff, Pepto! Works just as good for me and I love the cherry flavor. Raging Stallion keeps it on the set just for me!

3. Keep a clean house.
Man's best friend is his shower shot. I am talking about my douche hose. I have one rigged at home, we have one at the studio and I have one that lives in my suitcase 24/7, with a wrench of course. Travel 101, buy a vice grip wrench. Budget hotels will caulk the shower nozzle in place so you really need a good grip to get it off to attach your hose. Luxury hotels sometimes have deluxe shower nozzles and then your doomed to use over the counter enemas which are not nearly as effective. I only clean deep if I know I need to. I don't know if I want to give a detailed account of how to clean properly. Unless of course your have a clean fetish and watching a silver bullet douche hose go up my tight hairy ass gets you off... I'll attach a photo in case that's what you want to see. Anyway you guys who are learning are going to have to figure out what clean is on your own. LOL! I will say there's is nothing wrong with frequent touch ups as a scene progresses.

Best advice I can give is to listen to your body.



I guess you're not that bored after all, the questions keep coming... and coming! Want to get into the action? email your questions. I'll try to keep up!


SC